On Acceptance

God’s Promise of Acceptance

Acceptance:

In life others evaluate us by our performance. Are we successful in our  careers, fit, and attractive? How much wealth do we possess? It's easy to believe God judges us in a similar way–based on our behavior. Although Christians recognize that salvation is by grace, many nonetheless strive for God's acceptance, never sure they have His love.  Some never feel WORTHY of it.

How is it for you?  Let’s ask ourselves two questions and see what reactions we have….

Do you ever think God must be displeased, impatient, or disappointed with you? yes or no?  Explain.  What would you have to do to be sure of His acceptance?

God’s Word teaches that as believers in Jesus, we are completely accepted.   Not partially, but completely.  If we belong to Christ, we share in His holiness. How can that be? Scripture teaches that through Adam's rebellion against God, all of humanity was corrupted, inheriting the disease of sin. But when the Savior died on the cross, He made a way for everyone who believes in Him to become holy:

"Adam's one sin brings condemnation for everyone, but Christ's one act of righteousness brings a right relationship with God and new life for everyone. Because one person disobeyed God, many became sinners. But because one other person obeyed God, many will be made righteous" (Rom. 5:18-19 NLT).

• As believers, how do we obtain righteousness (Rom. 3:21-24)?

21But now apart from the Law the righteousness of God has been manifested, being witnessed by the Law and the Prophets, 22even the righteousness of God through faith in Jesus Christ for all those who believe; for there is no distinction; 23for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, 24being justified as a gift by His grace through the redemption which is in Christ Jesus;

• Dictionary.com defines justify as "to declare innocent or guiltless; absolve; acquit." On what basis do we have peace with God (Rom. 5:1-2)?

 You are innocent and guiltless in the Lord's sight. Describe how that makes you feel.

 Why is it possible to be confident that God's love isn't conditional upon our behavior (Rom. 5:4-8)?

B. God accepts us by grace, not based on performance.

In the first century, some Jewish Christians believed that good works were necessary to earn salvation and make us Christ-like. However, Ephesians 2:8-9 teaches that salvation is by faith alone—good works cannot save us (Eph. 2:10; James 2:26) but rather, they should result from our trust in the Savior. We become godly over time by surrendering to the Holy Spirit—not because we follow the Law of Moses or any other set of rules.

Read Galatians 3:1-14.

• How did the Galatians first receive the Spirit (v. 1-4)?
• What was required for them to experience His power (v. 2-5)?
• How did Abraham obtain righteousness (v. 6)?
• The Jews are physical descendants (sons) of Abraham. Who are his spiritual descendants (v.7-9)?
• Why is trying to earn righteousness or justification by observing the law a futile endeavor (v. 10)?
• For what purpose did Christ free believers (Gal. 5:1-2)?

We typically use the term "falling from grace" to mean losing favor with God because of sin.

• Read Galatians 5:4. In context, what do you think Paul meant by "falling from grace"?

 Believers live in confidence and freedom because of grace.

The controversy over circumcision is no longer at the forefront of Christian debate. However, legalism—the idea that believers are justified by what they do––still cripples much of today's church. Some people fear losing their salvation over each sin they commit. More common is the idea that we must meet the Father's standards in order to receive His love and affection. Sometimes legalistic believers have the impression that God feels disgusted when they fall short.

• Do you strive to measure up to rigid standards or follow particular rules of Christian living? If so, how do you feel when you fail?
• Read Romans 8:1-2 and describe why you are free.

Since the time of Abraham, God has purposed that salvation be only by faith, not works. If you are in Christ, rest assured that He accepts you. When sin interrupts fellowship with the Father, He wants to restore His disobedient follower but never ceases to accept the believer as His beloved child.

Prayer: Dear Lord, thank You for the gift of righteousness through Your Son. I'm grateful that I no longer have to perform to win Your acceptance. Help me use my freedom to serve You and others. In Jesus' name. Amen.

Acceptance

Acceptance:

In life others evaluate us by our performance. Are we successful in our  careers, fit, and attractive? How much wealth do we possess? It's easy to believe God judges us in a similar way–based on our behavior. Although Christians recognize that salvation is by grace, many nonetheless strive for God's acceptance, never sure they have His love.  Some never feel WORTHY of it.

How is it for you?  Let’s ask ourselves two questions and see what reactions we have….

Do you ever think God must be displeased, impatient, or disappointed with you? yes or no?  Explain.  What would you have to do to be sure of His acceptance?

God’s Word teaches that as believers in Jesus, we are completely accepted.   Not partially, but completely.  If we belong to Christ, we share in His holiness. How can that be? Scripture teaches that through Adam's rebellion against God, all of humanity was corrupted, inheriting the disease of sin. But when the Savior died on the cross, He made a way for everyone who believes in Him to become holy:

"Adam's one sin brings condemnation for everyone, but Christ's one act of righteousness brings a right relationship with God and new life for everyone. Because one person disobeyed God, many became sinners. But because one other person obeyed God, many will be made righteous" (Rom. 5:18-19 NLT).

• As believers, how do we obtain righteousness (Rom. 3:21-24)?

21But now apart from the Law the righteousness of God has been manifested, being witnessed by the Law and the Prophets, 22even the righteousness of God through faith in Jesus Christ for all those who believe; for there is no distinction; 23for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, 24being justified as a gift by His grace through the redemption which is in Christ Jesus;

• Dictionary.com defines justify as "to declare innocent or guiltless; absolve; acquit." On what basis do we have peace with God (Rom. 5:1-2)?

 You are innocent and guiltless in the Lord's sight. Describe how that makes you feel.

 Why is it possible to be confident that God's love isn't conditional upon our behavior (Rom. 5:4-8)?

B. God accepts us by grace, not based on performance.

In the first century, some Jewish Christians believed that good works were necessary to earn salvation and make us Christ-like. However, Ephesians 2:8-9 teaches that salvation is by faith alone—good works cannot save us (Eph. 2:10; James 2:26) but rather, they should result from our trust in the Savior. We become godly over time by surrendering to the Holy Spirit—not because we follow the Law of Moses or any other set of rules.

Read Galatians 3:1-14.

• How did the Galatians first receive the Spirit (v. 1-4)?
• What was required for them to experience His power (v. 2-5)?
• How did Abraham obtain righteousness (v. 6)?
• The Jews are physical descendants (sons) of Abraham. Who are his spiritual descendants (v.7-9)?
• Why is trying to earn righteousness or justification by observing the law a futile endeavor (v. 10)?
• For what purpose did Christ free believers (Gal. 5:1-2)?

We typically use the term "falling from grace" to mean losing favor with God because of sin.

• Read Galatians 5:4. In context, what do you think Paul meant by "falling from grace"?

 Believers live in confidence and freedom because of grace.

The controversy over circumcision is no longer at the forefront of Christian debate. However, legalism—the idea that believers are justified by what they do––still cripples much of today's church. Some people fear losing their salvation over each sin they commit. More common is the idea that we must meet the Father's standards in order to receive His love and affection. Sometimes legalistic believers have the impression that God feels disgusted when they fall short.

• Do you strive to measure up to rigid standards or follow particular rules of Christian living? If so, how do you feel when you fail?
• Read Romans 8:1-2 and describe why you are free.

Since the time of Abraham, God has purposed that salvation be only by faith, not works. If you are in Christ, rest assured that He accepts you. When sin interrupts fellowship with the Father, He wants to restore His disobedient follower but never ceases to accept the believer as His beloved child.

Prayer: Dear Lord, thank You for the gift of righteousness through Your Son. I'm grateful that I no longer have to perform to win Your acceptance. Help me use my freedom to serve You and others. In Jesus' name. Amen.

...and the WISDOM to know the difference?

Wisdom……..something I seek after regularly with the Lord and receive more often than not, in complete faith!

I remember way back (into 1987) when I first read the Serenity Prayer:


Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
Forever in the next.
Amen.
--Reinhold Niebuhr

I was sitting in an Ala-non meeting in 1987, when I was introduced to this prayer; estranged from an alcoholic husband, trying to make sense and gain wisdom on what to do next, with a baby on my knee.  We have probably heard the first part of that prayer, but rarely the second part, which is the explanation of what it means.  It impacted me, though, and thus I have sought wisdom to know the difference ever since.
Truly, the Lord says it a different way:

Trust in the LORD with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding;
in all your ways acknowledge him,
and he will direct your paths.
Proverbs 3, 5-6

(Hmmmm…..I like the second better than the first, actually.)
I have been musing before the Throne lately, about my path and direction in this life for Jesus!  Who am I, really, for You Father?  But, even in uncertainty and change - do I trust Him, without reservation or hesitation or a care - that is how I trust the Lord.

The Lord gave me a vision in 1998, about unity of His body.  It crossed denominational lines and barriers, lived outside doctrine and tradition, and was a photograph of Agape.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 talks about the application of Agape (sacrificial love):
 Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”

If Love has a name and it is called Jesus, what has happened to the Church?  Division, strife, competition, rules, doctrine and tradition…. whose kingdom are we building?  The kingdom of God or the kingdom of man (cloaked in church such-and-such?)

Why isn’t it one in the same anymore, Lord?  Why can’t we just be and share and love You as a body of believers (a FAMILY of brothers and sisters)?  Why is it still “oh I can’t come there because I belong to THIS building or I can’t minister there because I tithe at THIS building…..).  It has even gotten to the point where leaders minister from the position of how it affects “their ministries” instead of the Kingdom of heaven!

YUCK! 

I remember a vision once told by a prophet named Rick Joyner.  In his vision, he saw a prison with people in a large yard or compound.  They were running around begging for freedom (even though the Lord has made HUGE holes in the fences for escape to Him that they just could not see).  And, in the watchtower, guards stood, heavily armed and ready to fire with loaded guns.  They kept the people in order, and dictated to them what they should do, when they should do it, etc.  It really appeared like a scene out of any movie where Federal prison is portrayed….

The ugly truth was in that vision, the people were the believers, the compound and prison were the current buildings that represented individual churches and the guards were the individual pastors, protecting THEIR sheep, and prohibiting them from not only being ONE, but from coming to the Lord.
Yet, the Lord’s agenda is not division and separatism.  It is unity!

Jesus Himself says in Matthew 23:37-39 says:

“Jerusalem, Jerusalem, who kills the prophets and stones those who are sent to her! How often I wanted to gather your children together, the way a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, and you were unwilling. “Behold, your house is being left to you desolate! “For I say to you, from now on you will not see Me until you say, ‘BLESSED IS HE WHO COMES IN THE NAME OF THE LORD!’”

Are we to remain so unwilling to gather when He says things like:
"And I, if I am lifted up from the earth, will draw all men to Myself."  John 12:32.

I promise, Lord, I will NOT let go of the vision you gave me for Your Church.  I will continue to preach it and live its conviction by vocation until it comes to fruition.  I will not waiver or compromise it.  I will not throw my pearls to the swine in spite of it.

You are my God and in YOU I find peace and rest!
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.